We are all Egoists

You are an egoist! You may agree or not, but I do not care. I will give you few ideas why you may change your perception about yourself. So, let's go ahead!

You may agree or disagree, but it will change nothing, because it is true. And there is the reason why I say so.

In interception with previous post, let's have a look on love relationships. A person is willing to find a partner, for there reason I mentioned previous time, but there is one more: to make himself better off. You may ask how. Let me explain. Many of us even without realizing start relationships to make life easier: now there is a person who care about you or at least pretending to do so. You know that this person most probably will admit your rightness in all the cases. It means that basically we want to have relationships because we are egoists, we are just looking for ways of simplifying our lives and this is one of the way to cheat.

I have more cases to support my claim. Let us have a look on a case of funerals. All the time close people are crying, pronouncing with tears "For whom did you leave me?". It does not mean anything for dead person, because he is basically gone. He does not feel pain or regret about anything. It again turns us to the main idea. All the people are egoists: they care about themselves, how they gonna live without this person, how they gonna fill this empty place in their lives. It brings changes, instability, which people hate.

Our egoism is everywhere: we are convincing our friends where to go, our relatives that we right, our spouse that we are fair with them. But by this we are trying to make them live under our rules. That basically means our egoism, because we care how we will feel, look like in the end and want everyone do it in the way we like.

We are greedy and egoistic. we cannot get rid of it because it is our nature. but we should accept it and do not lie to ourselves anymore.